Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Dancing Branflake Birthday Party

It's my birthday! Truth be told, I have a hard time with my birthday. I don't mind getting older, but it's the actual celebrating that brings me down. In the last six years, I've spent my birthday at home once. Every other year I've been on tour or traveling. And although last year's birthday was pretty wonderful in London, it was with people I had just met and by a miracle I fell in love with all of them. Up until that day, I was planning on spending my birthday alone. (sad)

I guess it's the expectations that come with birthdays that gives me anxiety. Will people remember? Will they care? Why do I even care if they remember or care? Would they want to even celebrate it with me? Why am I so high-maintenance?

But this year I'm telling myself to suck it up, enjoy the life God gave me, and have a wonderful birthday no matter what happens. 

And I'm day dreaming while I'm at it....


The Decor
Let's party at my imaginary beach house.
I'd love to do some midnight swimming after dessert.

image from Elle Decor

The Menu
I need more clam bakes in my life.
And mini BLT burgers.
salad, clam bake, burgers, soup, chips, pizza

My Cake
This is my dream cake.
Cotton candy is heaven's dessert.
Cake and photos by Heather from Sprinkle Bakes

What I'm Wearing
is 100% Dancing Branflake style.
I just went through all my favorite sites and picked out things I loved.
necklace, clutch, ring, dress, jacket, sunnies, heels


The Favor
Because I love you. And s'mores.
Via Real Simple

Happy Birthday to all my July friends!
Let's rock our birthdays this year!
ps... remember last year's birthday post about the awkward Scot who tried to pick me up?
Shudder.

50 comments:

Christine @Fancy Function said...

Happy Birthday! I'm like you - I don't like to make a huge fuss about my bday and I would rather just celebrate it with my husband. My bday is in 2 weeks and he already told me we're doing something in NYC that weekend and that I have to dress up. Fun!

Koru Kate {Koru Wedding} said...

Happy Birthday! However you celebrate, may it be happy & fun. I'm a July birthday too- July babies are best :-)

Hollie said...

Happy Birthday Tiffany! I hope it's the best one yet. :]

Anna said...

Happy, Happy Birthday!! Hope today is your best birthday yet. Enjoy!

Patricia Villamil said...

Have an extraordinary birthday. The party looks lots of fun!

Chudney Thomas said...

Happy Birthday!

Vanisha @ Vanishas Life In...Australia said...

Happy Birthday lovely! It's mine today as well! xoxox

angie said...

Yay have a happy birthday filled with gifts!

Erin said...

Happy Birthday! :)

rolala said...

Happy Birthday Tiffany! Have an amazing day and an even better year!

Rowena @ rolala loves

Fashion art and other fancies said...

Happy, happy, happy birthday, my lovely!;-)
XXXX

THE ALTERNATIVE WIFE said...

Happy bday Tiff!!! Hope you have a fabulous time celebrating you today. I do know what you mean about bdays though. I used to have a really tough time with them. My mother used to forget all the time, not every year but a good majority of them, and the worst thing is that I share the same birthday with my stepfather so I know there was no way that she didn't know what the day was. Kinda awful but I learned to move on and now I'm just a big old baby about my bday. I get excited weeks in advance. Pretty pathetic especially for an almost 40 year old. Ah well, I'll be forever young. :)

Have a wonderful time today, my fellow July baby! xoxo

Jessica Havican said...

Happy Birthday Tiffany! I am totally the same way about my birthdays. They give me anxiety too LOL! I hope you have a fabulous day!

Lena at A Crimson Kiss said...

Happy, happy, HAPPIEST birthday darling! I've spent more than one birthday by myself, and like New Years, those celebrations can always be a bit of a letdown. BUT I have a feeling this is going to be a pretty wonderful birthday, and an even better year!

Hannah said...

Happy, happy! Can I please come to this wonderful birthday party? It looks amazing. I wish you a very happy birthday and many more to come.

Hannah from I am a lifestyle blog

Tabitha said...

Have a wonderful birthday Tiffany!

ElsaD said...

Happy B-Day!!! Wishing u nothing but happiness and sucess! xoxo

Sarah said...

Oh man i would LOVE a clam bake party. That would be me ideal. I'm sure your family and friends will remember... especially if you are home =)

- Sarah
agirlintransit.blogspot.com

ilene @ muchloveilly said...

happy birthday, sweet friend! i would totally come to your bday party and bring you a stack of books and bags of cotton candy and popcorn - and then we can call it a party!

SabinePsynopsis said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Love! Celebrating at home is wonderful, too... and next year you have to celebrate in London again :)

Krysten @ Why Girls Are Weird said...

I've always wanted someone to plan a surprise party for me but I feel like I have to be the one planning things or people will forget. Kinda sad.

Anyway, I already said it on FB but happy birthday friend, I hope you have an amazing day!

Sera said...

i would love a beach birthday party like this one! it sounds so fun, but relaxing at the same time. happy birthday!

Sera said...

i would love a beach birthday party like this one! it sounds so fun, but relaxing at the same time. happy birthday!

Chrissy said...

Happy Birthday, Tiffany! Hope you have a fabulous day! xxx

Michelle said...

Happy birthday!! Can't wait to hear all about how you celebrate.

Gaby said...

Happy Birthday Tiffany!! I completely understand about the whole birthday thing...I think I enjoy celebrating other peoples' birthday more than my own. :) I'm a Christmas Eve baby so as soon as adulthood hit, the partying stopped. Oh well, I now treat myself to something every year whether it be a mini shopping spree, a massage, a hair appointment, etc. and set a new goal for myself for that year. My 29th birthday goal was to start a blog, which I have, and it has given me yet another outlet that I've been appreciating. Hope your day is uniquely special!!

ag. said...

HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY! I hope your day/week/month/year turns out to be fabulous just like you! This looks like a party I would LOVEEEE to be at...that beach house is from my dreams!

I totally know what you mean about birthdays - I love celebrating other people's birthdays but when it comes to mine, I'm just as happy to fly under the radar.

Happpppyyy Birthday!

Charlotte said...

Yeah July birthdays! Mine is on the 27th.

I will attend your imaginary party for all that amazing FOOD.

Clara Turbay said...

you are special so you make this blog great.

{be merry} kate said...

A big happy birthday to you! I resigned myself to quiet birthdays at home a long time ago, and honestly, I'm starting to prefer them! This year I went out by myself for a haircut and a mani/pedi. Then I lounged around the house and ended the day getting dinner with the husband. Best birthday ever.

Oh, and thanks for the s'mores. They're my fave. ;)

xoxo

Amy Shaughnessy said...

Woo hoo! July birthdays! Mine is the 29th. I will be spending mine teaching a summer intensive. (That is how I spend my birthday pretty much every year now!)

Amy


Fashion and Beauty Finds

Katie said...

Happy birthday!

I hope it was lovely and full of fun.

thais said...

happy birthday sweet tiffany !! a lifelong of health, happiness and dance. may you keep on inspiring and sharing your beauty with the world.

veta said...

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Cafe Fashionista said...

I'm not sure which I love more - the cake or the favor! You always plan the most divine parties, Tiffany; and the color of the dress you plan on wearing? GORGEOUS! :)

size too small said...

happy birthday! your dream birthday party sounds/looks lovely!

Chic 'n Cheap Living said...

Happy birthday darling! May your day be filled with cotton candy, beach house parties, and perhaps another diamond necklace?

xoxo,
Chic 'n Cheap Living

Punctuation Mark said...

Hope you had a fantastic time my dear!

Blond Duck said...

I hope you have a wonderful birthday!

marissa at the boot said...

happy birthday tiffany! you are such a sweet girl and i'm so glad we're (new) friends! <3

Audrey Allure said...

Yay! Happy belated birthday!

drollgirl said...

well i am a little late to this party but i hope you had a FABULOUS BIRTHDAY!

birthday pressures can ruin everything! it is best to lighten up and just enjoy the day. i am going to try and do that this year, too. eeek.

drollgirl said...

p.s. get that blue dress! awesome!

Diya said...

Hey! It's my birthday this week too...happy birthday to you!

Like you, I get birthday anxiety every single year. This year my anxiety has been a bit worse since I've only been in NYC for a few weeks and all my best friends (nor my family) are here to celebrate with me. Can I just ignore my birthday? Haha.

Anyway, hope you have a fantastic birthday!

Midnight Cowgirl said...

Hope you had a wonderful birthday!

leslie.conner said...

Happiest of birthdays to you! That cotton candy cake is awesome...!!

Debby Steele said...

Happy Bday, beautiful girl!! Yes, I'm with you, just enjoy and revel in the day. Love your outfit choices, you always looks amazing. Maybe you will get a cotton candy machine for your bday!!!! xo

Luna said...

Happy belated Birthday! I'm the cotton candy (fairy floss to us) lover in my family so Yay! all for me. Cake is a great choice.

Jennifer of JennySue Makeup said...

That Smores stack is too cute!! Great site, glad I found you!! I'm a huge dance freak too:)

Krystal said...

i loooove it!!!! i hope you had a wonderful bday. the favors here is my favorite thing, that is SUCH a cute idea.